verbal or non-verbal intimacy from your companion, you might consider moving to the next stage: a hand-touch. When flirting, you should therefore watch out for signs of this 'non-verbal leakage' in your partner's posture and try to send the right signals with your own posture. If you feel the conversation is not flowing easily, or you and partner seem awkward and uncomfortable with each other, try to be more sensitive to the patterns of his/her gestures and body movements, and to reflect these in your own body language. Analysis of thousands of personal ads where people are more explicit about their requirements, and more obviously conscious of the requirements of others shows that these are the qualities most frequently demanded and offered by mate-seekers. When flirting, you can also use postural echo to create a feeling of togetherness and harmony. Even from across a crowded room at a party, you can signal your interest in someone merely by making eye contact and attempting to hold your target's gaze for more than one second (not too much more, though, or you will seem threatening). Du bestämmer själv hur fräck eller anonym du vill vara.
So, if you say "Nice day, isn't it?" and your target replies "Yes, I was getting so tired of all that rain, weren't you? This is quite true, and if you read the more scientific research on the subject, you will find out why. Du kan välja att starta en chatt med profilerna som tittar p din webbkamera, eller välja om alla profiler p ska se din livesändning. Males have always tended towards an over-optimistic interpretation of female signals, and females have always adjusted their signals to encourage only selected males. We may be smiling and nodding, but unconsciously revealing our disagreement by a tense posture with tightly folded arms. On the negative side, inappropriate use of humour can kill a promising flirtation stone dead in a matter of seconds.